Ever since I’ve known you, Feb 14th has been synonymous with your birthday to me. I will never be able to express in words how much I miss you. All I can do is recall a few memories that have etched their marks permanently in my system. Do you remember
- those days when we would haunt the archies store and go through all the cards on display. You would pick a beautiful card and tell me – “Seema, this card is from me to you. You can come here whenever you want and take a sneak peek”
- you would always buy at least 5 black rubber bands at once for yourself and I would always wonder what was the need to buy 5 of them when they are just the same?
- you would never refill petrol in your scooty even after riding it for a couple of days in reserve. We even ended up with no fuel once and walked all the way to get two empty bottles filled from fuel station giggling like looney bins brewing up stories of what people will think we are carrying.
- had it not been for you, I would have never learnt to ride a scooter. (Okay, if my bro reads this, he would snarl at me coz he taught me the basics) When I had put my feet down calling it not-my-cuppa-tea, it was you who boosted my morale and strengthened my withered confidence.
- we would bunk classes in college just because we were feeling bored and would head to Aunty’s ice cream parlour, munch on a packet of Lays and sip on our regular drinks. (Yours being 7UP or Slice and mine – Mountain Dew)
- those days when we would drench like crows in rain on our Scooty’s rather than wait for it to stop pouring and we even entered exam hall once all wet š
- those days when all girls in our class would agree upon wearing colour coded dresses, you would act like an enthu cutlet and then would be the only girl who didn’t abide by the rules š
- the days when I would have worn a saree and you would pinch my tummy saying it looks like a ‘Maida dough’
- the days when I would wear a yellow dress and you would say ‘You look like a tubelight’
- how you would bunk exams and I would be the most furious and exasperated at yourĀ callousnessĀ but would melt down the next moment I talked to you for you would say ‘It’s okay Seema. I’ll write next time’
- the day when you spoke to me over phone for the first time after I eloped, you blasted me left, right, centre for the blasphemous deed I had committed?
- the way you would console me when I would feel apologetic, being knee deep in guilt, for all ‘de-faming accusations’ you had to bear because of my fleeing adventure…
I can just go on and on and on, you know? It’s been 6 years since I last met you in person. Wonder how many more years it will take for us to meet! No matter the distance, no matter the long absent calls or chats, I want you to know that you are close to me. I miss your company, your PJs, your lunacy, your usage of P words, your hilarious Kannada… I miss you Nilu š¦
Hope you have a great day today! Wish you many many happy returns of the day!!!
PS: Few pics I somehow caught hold of.
Many happy returns of the day to your best frined Seema.
Hope you get to meet her soon….
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Thanks Garima. Hope so š
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Happy birthday Nilu! How is it that all you people have some catchy dates as birthdays?! š
That was such a nostalgic read, Seema. I hope you guys get back to your older-happier selves soon.
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Hehe š Mere co-incidence!
Yeah, hope so š
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Awwww! thats so so cute…loved the pics….too good both of you are š
Happy Birthday Nilu from RM as well š
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Thanks RM.
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Happy Birthday Nilu!!!
No worries seema.. Good times are not far away!loads of love and prayers sweety!
Its so so sweet of you to preserve all those chits š
And you definitely look like a doll made of maida š š š
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You don’t know what a nut case I am. I had a treasure full of all such junk preserved safely at my home back in Kundapura. Only thing is I couldn’t carry the huge load while eloping š Luckily these chits came along a few pics that I had carried. *Phew*
You mean I look like a white ghost? *wipes away tears*
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Awww! Such a heart warming post this is! Wishing Nilu a very happy birthday! I know how terrible it feels when you miss your dear friend. Having a good friend in your life means a lot! No matter how close you are with your family members, you always need a friend. I miss my friend from school & college now! Wish both of you meet soon!
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Hope you meet your dear friend soon too Sreetama.
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OMG Seema!!!! I have no doubt in my mind that this is by far best thing any1s done for Nilu…PERIOD!!!Ur such a sweetheart Seema,I rly wish Nilu and you meet up soon!!! Im assuming Nilu will see this after a long time(she messed up her laptop),but whn she does,Im sure she will feel very very very SPECIAL!!She is indded a very lucky gal to have a friend like u in her life. š
P.S.:My b’day is on Oct.30 ;))
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Hey Naaz, thank you so much for dropping by. I take your word for it that Nilu would feel special when she reads this.
She messed up her laptop? Sigh!! When will she grow up? That explains her long absence from FB.
I’ll try to remember that š
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Wishing your friend Nilu a very happy birthday and many many happy returns or the day ..
day always comes after a night .. os good days come too no matter what they will.. Might take longer but THEY WILL.
š and the good old pictures wow …
Have a great day
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Thanks Bikram š
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Happy happy birthday Nilu.. wishing you to meet her soon and talk all this in person all night š
the pictures are so nice.. good old memories..
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Ya… That would be bliss…
Thanks Ani š
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Here’s wishing Nilu a belated Happy Birthday š
Your sweet nostalgic post brough to me memories of my college days when I used to be linked to my bestest buddy by the boys for we were the only girls in the class to be without a boyfriend š
Here’s hoping you get to catch up with your best buddy someday soon š
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Thanks Era š
Hahaha… You too were linked with your best buddy in college?
Thanks, I hope so too. š
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Ooooh my wishes to ur best friend… Ur post was very sentimental and I really hope u get to meet her,the best part is that u gals r in touch n unable to meet? how come re?? Anyways I really hope u gals meet up n chit chat and all….
Ur blog made me think..think coz I too had a close close friend n coz of some nonsence mis-understanding (I really dont know why we stopped keeping in touch now) we are no more in touch… Not sure wats changed b/w us but it is allllllll changed a lot… I know friends r like treasures but cudnt treasure this one… Hope we meet or get back to each other…
Hugs to u dear n the memories u hv abt ur friend- The chit the photo is amazing…
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Yaa re… We have been in touch on and off coz we both moved to places, changed phone numbers, addresses, had kids and all that.
Hope you get back to your lost friend š¦
Thanks Deepsi š
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Feeling so nostalgic….Me and my best friend had spend similar rocking time…but due to some unavoidable situations we broke up and believe me after 5 years when called each other and then later met again it was like nothing happened…..
lotz of best wishes to ur friendship…… š
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Thanks NB š
With best friends, you can always start from where you stopped last time and you do not realize that so many years have passed by since š
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I am sorry to digress here, but something very interesting caught my attention. You eloped??? How cool is that?! Is your marriage simply inter caste, or is it inter religion too? Can you please share your story? How you met, how you got together, the drama, the opposition, the eloping? Please, oh please! Mail me if you don’t want to talk about it here. Please š
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It is inter-everything-possible re š Religion, culture, language, state, you name it!
I sent you an e-mail. Please check š
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I am unable to reply. It keeps giving out some error and says the delivery failed permanently. Don’t know why š¦
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š¦ Why o why? Did you try to just send a new mail to my id? Waiting for your reply!
If you can’t, you can drop a comment here. I will not approve it, thik hai?
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Seema, enthadu marere nammige nimma story namige heyli antha yavaglo helidhalva….nammige helude illenu marere??? š š I am just kidding seema….dont imagine this to be my accent :P. Don’t you worry….you guys will meet soon…Happiness is folowed by sad times….its a cycle š
Share you story with us…I am dying to listen to it :).
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Hahaha… Hearing Kundapura Kannada after ages made me smile beeg š
Will share re as I muster the courage to do so š³
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You are too good an inspiration to anyone :)…
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Thanks Aarti š
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SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEMMMMMMMMMAAAAAAAAAAAAAA im deeply touched re.. awwwwwwwwwwww such a beautiful love letter..hahaha.. awwww luvvvvvvvvv u my pirky gal.. guess wat????????????????????????????? i will b in bang by this month end.. lukin 4wd to meetin u sweety… lets partyyyyyyyyyyyy… soooooo wanna c my twin dolls…. cant wait to c u… :)))) and haan thanks soo much all for the wishes… š seema u made me feel sooooooooo special.. luv u loadssssssssssss n loadss. n miss u even more… š
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You Pirky Pandu! Where did you disappear??
Wow, get in touch with me as soon as you land in Bangalore okay? And lemme know of your schedule before hand. Love ya… You are special, I just stated the facts babes. Mmmmuah to you š
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Hi Seema, thanks for the B’day wishes…I always knew I was a born romantic!
-Not your Nilu š¦
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Not my Nilu? I was totally puzzled for a moment and checked your Gravatar š Welcome here…
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